Breast Implants Truth
My ex is moving in with a transsexual with our son and won’t tell our son the truth about his new roommate.
It’s true. Last year my ex befriended a woman(mtf transgender) who became very ill. When she became better she decided that she was going to leave her home and all of her possesions to my ex. Now she has offered to have him move in with her and my ex is planning on taking our 9 year old son with him.
I have asked my ex to please explain to our son, and be honest about the new roommate sexual orientation. He refuses to tell our son, stating that it isn’t his business and that it would be up to his roommate to tell our son. This woman still has her male parts with the exception of Breast Implants. What if my son walked in on her?
If anyone knows the family courts system, the first thing to know is that it is never a place you want to visit twice.
I don’t care if she is male to female, I just don’t want my son to think someone lied to him or for him to feel uncomfortable because he can tell she’s a man and no one is saying what’s really up (the big pink elephant theory).
A professional therapist ( Gender Disorder/ Dysphoria Specialist ) should be engaged to either explain the situation to your son , OR tell one of you how to go about it . This will prevent confusion and embarassement for everyone ! There are also a few decent books on the market on how to explain that you are a TG to your loved ones . These could be helpful . Pre-op TSs usually are not 100% “passable” and your son will find out from his friends if he doesn’t pick it up on his own . Better to be told up front !
IF your husband has a romantic relationship with this person the explantion will have to be a bit more involved than if he didn’t .
I can give you links / information for your area if you email me . You might also post your question in Yahoo Groups : inassilverswan to gain some perspective .
Note that “transgender” is now sometimes also used to denote people who are Transvestite , Drag Queens and ExtremeTrans people .
David Reath Knoxville Plastic Surgeon Saline Breast Implants Truth-O-Meter Tuesday
Tags: augmentation, boob, breast implants truth, enlargement, implants, job